I was suspicious from the start,but played the game

by KATHLEEN O'BRIEN
(BALLARAT VICTORIA AUSTRALIA)

I WAS ON ZOOSK, AS I HADN'T BEEN ON THERE FOR A LONG TIME, AS I JUST COME OUT OF A RELATIONSHIP.

JUST SEARCHING AND THIS GUY CAME UP,HE WAS FROM MELTON, WHICH IS IN AUS. I THOUGHT OK I WILL READ HIS PROFILE AND WOW HE SEEMS OK, SO WHEN I WAS CHECKING HIS PROFILE OUT, HE CAUGHT ME AND WANTED TO CHAT, SO I STARTED TO CHAT WITH HIM.

THEN HE WANTED TO CHAT ON YAHOO, SO HE GAVE ME HIS ADDRESS, SO WE WENT THERE TO CHAT. HE SEEMED GENUINE, AND THEN I STARTED ASKING QUESTIONS ABOUT MELTON, AND WHERE HE LIVED. HE TOLD ME KILARNEY DRIVE, AND I SAID MY SISTER LIVES THERE. HE WENT QUIET, AND THEN SAID TO ME, WHAT DO YOU WANT OUT OF LIFE?

I SAID TO FIND MY SOUL MATE, AND THEN HE SAID THAT'S WHAT I'M LOOKING FOR. AS THIS WAS MY FIRST TIME ON HERE, AND I REPLIED OH, HE SAID I BELEIVE DESTINY HAS BROUGHT US TOGETHER. I REPLIED, YOU NEVER KNOW, AND HE THEN TOLD ME THAT HE WORKS FOR THE MINES IN WA. I SAID WHICH ONE, AND HE SAID PILBARA, OR SOMETHING LIKE THAT, ANYWAY,I SAID WHAT DO YOU DO THERE AND HE SAID HE WORKS FOR A CONTRUCTION COMPANY AS A CIVIL ENGINEER.

I SAID GREAT, AND I REPLIED MY FRIEND RUNS A MINE OVER THERE,PLUS A FEW OF MY FRIENDS WORK THERE TO. THEN HE SAID I'M ONLY CONTRACTED SO I DONT MIX WITH THE WORKERS.

THEN HE STARTED CHATTING ABOUT HIS PARENTS, AND THEN HE ASKED ME IF I OWNED MY OWN HOUSE, AND CAR. I REPLIED I DONT DIVULGE THAT TO ANYONE. HE SAID WHY NOT ME, AND I SAID BECAUSE I DONT KNOW YOU. YES YOU DO, YOU ARE MY SOUL MATE, AND I SAID NO. OK THEN HE REPLIED,I FEEL YOU AND I ARE MEANT TO BE TOGETHER, AS I FEEL FOR YOU, CAN YOU FEEL IT TO.

THIS KEPT GOING ON FOR A FEW DAYS, AND IF I WASNT ONLINE HE WOULD GIVE ME THE THIRD DEGREE, WHERE YOU BEEN, CHATTING TO OTHER MEN HAVENT YOU. I SAID NO, I WENT OUT WITH FRIENDS WHY, AND HE SAID I REALLY CARE FOR YOU AND DONT WANT YOU TALKING TO OTHER MEN AS YOUR MINE NOW.

I REPLIED SO YOU DONT TRUST ME AND HE SAID YES BABE I DO, AND THEN HE STARTED ON ABOUT ME BEING HIS WHOLE WORLD, AND HE COULDNT LIVE WITHOUT ME IF I LEFT HIM, AND HIS LUV FOR ME WAS GETTING REALLY INTENSE.

WE SHARED PHOTOS, AND HE WROTE ME EVERY DAY,SENT ME MUSIC, KEPT DECLARING HIS LUV FOR ME IN SO MANY WAYS, KEPT DISAPPEARING IN SHORT INTERVALS, AND I WOULD BUZZ HIM, AND HE WOULD COME BACK AND SAY,IM HERE MY LUV, ILL BE HOME SOON TO BE WITH YOU.

THIS WENT ON FOR WEEKS WITH HIM DECLARING HIS LUV FOR ME, AND I DECLARED MY LUV FOR HIM, AS HE WAS SO CONVINCING, THEN HE SAID I'M WAITING TO BE PAID FOR A JOB I DID OVER IN INDONESIA. THEY OWE ME 750 THOUSAND, AND I SAID,MY GOD, SO HE SAID YES,THEY STILL HAVENT PAID ME, AND I SAID THATS NOT GOOD.

HE SAID I WILL BUY A HOME FOR YOU AND I WHEN I GET IT, AS I LUV YOU SO MUCH, AND YOUR'E MY WORLD, NOW ALL I EVER DO IS THINK ABOUT YOU, AND HOW I CAN IMPROVE YOUR LIFE. I REPLIED WHY AND HE SAID I WANT TO GIVE YOU EVERYTHING YOU DESIRE. I REPLIED YOU DONT HAVE TO DO THAT,I HAVE YOU AND THAT'S ENOUGH.

HE REPLIED,THIS IS WHY I LUV YOU SO MUCH,YOU ARE EVERYTHING AND MORE TO ME. THEN HE STARTED WRITING THESE BEAUTIFUL WORDS, AND THEN THE SMUT STARTED HAPPENING, AND IT WAS VERY INTENSE, AND HE KEPT TALKING ABOUT THE SIZE OF HIS PENIS, AND WHAT HIS DESIRES WERE.

I FELT THAT I WAS ON CYBER SEX, BUT NEVER BEEN THERE BUT IT WAS AS IF HE WAS GETTING OFF ON WHAT HE WAS SAYING. THE STORIES STARTED COMMING STRONGER AND STRONGER EVERY NIGHT THEY SEEMED AS THOUGH THEY WERE WRITTEN ALREADY LIKE A PLAY. HE SLOWED DOWN FOR A WHILE AND THEN IT STARTED AGAIN,AND I SENT A PHOTO OF THE BEACH, AND THE HOUSE WHERE I STAY. HE SAID IS THAT YOUR MOTHERS HOUSE I SAID NO WHY, AND HE SAID I THOUGHT YOU SAID IT WAS, AND I SAID NO I DIDNT. THIS IS WHERE MY MUM GREW UP. OH HE SAID, SO WHEN YOUR MUM DIED, SHE LEFT YOU AN INHERITENCE. I REPLIED I DONT WANT TO TALK ABOUT THIS AND HIS ANSWER WAS WHY NOT MY DARLING AS WHATS MINE IS YOURS AND WHATS YOURS IS MINE.

I SAID NO I'M NOT TALKING ABOUT IT AS IT'S IN THE COURTS HANDS AND HE SAID WHY AND I SAID IT'S A DELICATE SUBJECT. HE SAID YOU CAN TELL ME ANYTHING KATHY, AS IM THE LUV OF YOUR LIFE, AND YOUR THE LUV OF MY LIFE, SO I STARTED TO CHANGE THE SUBJECT.

HE STARTED GOING ON ABOUT THE DAY HE WAS COMMING HOME AND HE WANTED TO MEET MY SISTER AND FAMILY AND I REALLY WANT TO MEET THEM MY LUV, AS I AM PART OF YOU, AND I REPLIED I KNOW BABE WE MEET AT OUR PLACE AT MELTON. HE SAID NO,I COOK, WASH YOUR CLOTHES, AND LOOK AFTER YOU FOR EVER.

I REPLIED WHAT ABOUT YOUR TWO LITTLE DOGS AND HE SAID I SEE THEM WHEN I GET HOME, THEN I COME TO YOU, OK I SAID, CAN WE MEET AT A COFFEE SHOP.

HE SAID WHY AND I SAID IM TALKING TO YOU ON THE NET, BUT I DONT KNOW YOU AT ALL, I HAVENT SEEN YOU, I HAVENT SPOKEN TO YOU ON THE PHONE, DONT YOU TRUST ME MY LUV AND I SAID YES BUT IM NOT SURE WHO YOU REALLY ARE.

KATHY IT'S ME,I LUV YOU TO THE END OF THE EARTH, I ANSWERED I LUV YOU TOO, OH BABY PLEASE TRUST ME I NEVER LIE TO YOU, I TELL THE TRUTH, I HAVE NEVER LUVED SOMEONE LIKE I LUV YOU. THIS WENT ON AND ON FOR 2 MONTHS, DECLARING HIS LUV FOR ME.

I STARTED THINKING SOMETHING ISN'T RIGHT HERE AS HE KEEPS DISAPPEARING, SO I DOWNLOADED A PROGRAM WHICH LETS YOU KNOW IF THEY ARE ON LINE OR NOT, DETECT INVISIBLE USERS ON YAHOO, SO I DOWNLOADED THIS PROGRAM AND IT WORKS.

IT SHOWED ME THAT HE WAS ONLINE WHEN HE WAS PLAYING INVISIBLE, SO I DID SOME MORE CHECKING ON GOOGLE SEARCH ANDI DOWNLOADED HIS PICTURE MANY TIMES AND MY GOD HE HAD YAHOO ACCOUNTS ALL OVER THE PLACE IN DIFFERENT NAMES, 5 ON FACEBOOK,BADOO, MSN ,DATECOVER, TAGGED.

I THOUGHT MY GOD WHO IS HE SO I WENT ON TO SCAMMED, AND HERE'S ALL PHOTOS OF HIM, PLUS PHOTOS OF THE CHILDREN HE DOWNLOADED OFF THE MODEL SITE, AS HE WAS POSING AS HIS DAUGHTERS.

IT MADE ME FEEL SICK,SO I CONFRONTED HIM, I DOWNLOADED ALL THE PICTURES OF HIM ON ALL WEB SITES AND HE CAME ON LINE AND SAID I HAVE MISSED YOU SO MUCH MY LUV, I LUV YOU SO MUCH, THEN I REPLIED NO YOU DONT YOU ARE A LIER

WHY YOU CALL ME A LIER, BECAUSE YOU ARE, AND A SCAMMER. NO IM NOT HAVE I ASKED YOU FOR ANYTHING, AND I SAID NO, SO WHY YOU CALL ME A SCAMMER, AS YOU HURT ME, AND IM TAKING YOU SHOPPING WHEN I COME HOME SO WHY YOU SAY THES HURTFUL WORDS TO ME.

I SAID BECAUSE I CAUGHT YOU OUT,YOU HAVE MANY DIFFERENT NAMES ON YAHOO,FACE BOOK, BADOO, MSN, HOTMAIL.

HE SAID OK, AND WENT QUIET, AND THEN CAME BACK AND SAID THATS NOT ME,SO I SAID OK, I WILL SEND YOU ALL THE PHOTOS I HAVE OF YOU.

WHY YOU DO THIS TO ME AS I LUV YOU SO MUCH,SOMEONE IS TRYING TO HURT US AND PULL US APART, AND I LUV YOU SO MUCH KATHY. I REPLIED I LUVED YOU TO UNTIL I FOUND OUT YOU LIED TO ME SO GIVE ME THE ID ON FACEBOOK, AND I WILL SHOW YOU ITS NOT ME.

I REPLIED GO AND SCAM SOMEONE ELSE YOU LOW LIFE. THIS IS MY STORY AS THERES MORE BUT AT THE MOMENT IM UPSET, FOR THIS TO HAPPEN AS I REALLY THOUGHT HE WAS FOR REAL AND YES I WAS STARTING TO FALL IN LUV WITH HIM, BUT THERE WERE THINGS THAT HE DID, MADE ME SUSPICIOUS, LIKE DISAPPEARING, STAYING INVISIBLE, NOT CHATTING ON THE PHONE, NOT SEEING HIM IN REAL LIFE, SENDING SONGS TO ME, AND SAYING LET US LISTEN TO THESE TOGETHER MY LOVE OF MY LIFE.

WHEN HE WAS DOING THIS AND KEEPING ME BUSY HE WAS OFF CHATTING TO SOMEONE ELSE,SO WATCH OUT FOR THESE SIGNS, AS THEY ARE THE SIGNS OF A SCAMMER.

TAKE CARE THERE OUT THERE, THE SCUM GOES UNDER MANY DIFFERENT NAMES BEN AGUSTINO YAHOO, DANNY GREEN HOTMAIL YAHOO, LEYROY COLT, FACEBOOK, HARRISON GILBERT MSN, LUCAS SCOTT,TOM ARIS, COLTON LEROY, DARREN GILBERT, DAVE FRED YAHOO, RANDY STURDIVANT FACEBOOK, ROBINSON MORGAN, MAXY RANDY FACEBOOK-BENJAMIN WRIGHT, DATECOVER, PLAYING CARLO101, WENGER ASHLEY HOTMAIL, CHRIS ROBBIE YAHOO, THERES MORE BUT THESE ARE THE NAMES HE USES,

THANKS FOR TAKING THE TIME TO READ THIS